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Recognizing Controlling Behavior
A controlling partner often uses manipulation that affects your self-view and dismisses your feelings. They might “avoid accountability by focusing the blame on you.” These behaviors can be subtle or develop gradually, making them hard to spot.
Control in Intimacy
One sign of control can appear in sexual behavior, such as a partner “constantly asking you to engage in sexual activities from behind,” which allows them to “maintain a sense of power and control, both physically and psychologically.” This can avoid emotional intimacy and assert dominance.
Healthy Relationship Boundaries
A healthy sexual relationship requires “mutual respect, trust, and communication.” If your partner pressures you or ignores your needs, it’s a warning sign. “Both partners should feel comfortable expressing their desires and boundaries without fear of judgment or coercion.”
Trust Your Instincts
Controlling behavior in sex may reflect broader issues in your relationship. Pay attention to how your partner respects your autonomy overall. If you feel manipulated, “it may be helpful to seek support from a therapist or counselor.” You deserve a relationship built on respect and trust.
