Surprising reason men have hands down
Why Men Rest a Hand in Their Pants
1. Comfort & Habit
Many men describe the habit as instinctive and cozy.
On Reddit, users said, “It’s warm down there” and “It’s comforting to lightly massage.”
For most, it’s not sexual—just a natural position that feels secure and relaxed.
2. Self-Soothing & Psychology
Therapist Lisa Spitz explains it as “an unconscious act of self-soothing,”
helping men feel calm and grounded.
Dr. Babak Ashrafi adds, “Rubbing certain parts of your body in a non-sexual way releases oxytocin,
a calming hormone which reduces nerves.”
3. Physical Reasons
Sometimes it’s practical—tight underwear, friction, or heat can cause discomfort.
As Dr. Ashrafi notes, “Men may need to adjust their genitalia for comfort.”
Mild irritation or temperature changes can also prompt quick touch or adjustment.
4. Protection & Context
Body-language expert Vanessa Van Edwards says it can act as subtle protection—
“insurance against a friend who might give them a nut jab.”
Still, what’s fine on the couch isn’t ideal “during your work presentation.”
